Sexting is one of the things that you usually hear about from celebrities, politicians, and sports persons, whenever somebody does it. Jennifer Lawrence, Christina Hendricks, and other celebrities have done it, and their photos got leaked. But we’re not so far removed from the famous people.
Sexting is one of the things that you usually hear about from celebrities, politicians, and sports persons, whenever somebody does it. Jennifer Lawrence, Christina Hendricks, and other celebrities have done it, and their photos got leaked. But we’re not so far removed from the famous people. Most of us have phones, and… if you’ve ever engaged in some naughty texting, you’re not alone. So whetheryou are a fan of it or not, you should follow certain rules in sending hot texts.
To be successful in sexting, the experts say you must be realistic about the type of relationship you are in. It really depends on if you are in a commited relationship or just hanging out. Thussaid, it’s not the best idea to send pictures to someone you don’t know very well, or during the early stage of a relationship. Some people may think that sending it to someone they don’t know very well will make them more interested if they see it. The worst idea ever. The possibility of your picture going around further than that one screen is highly possible. So definitely don’t do that; wait for the right moment to make it happen.
The best and the most appropriate time would be when you’re involved with someone seriously and you’re emotionally close enough to know that they will accept it and not forward it on.What are some sexting do’s and don’ts?
First, you want to start easy and slow. Building sexual tension can make anticipation hotter. Tease your mate. You want to create some sort of mystery so they would have to use their imagination to fill in the blanks. Text him something like, “If only you could see what I am wearing now… (and then describe something hot and sexy, like stockings or lingerie).”
Once you’ve got him going uptown, you can heat things up by saying how you want him right now, or anything hot that comes in your mind. However, know your partner’s limits and don’t go beyond the line. Just like in real sex, there are boundaries. You don’t want to become one of the sexting failures you see on memes online.
On the downside, there are some don’tsin sexting. Sex and relationship psychologist for Durex, Susan Quilliam, says: “Avoid sending pictures with your face in the shot. Remember, relationships can go wrong. Be wary when it comes to when you’re sending the shot. You don’t want to do it when you’ve had alcohol. What happens if your girlfriend’s name is Maria and you accidentally send it to mum?”
Also, don’t use sexting as a way to try to repair relationship problems. Sexting is not the best idea to solve any type of a conflict. Try to solve it any other way, and then celebrate it with sexual intimacy.
The important thing is to be playful and actually enjoy yourself; if you are having fun, then there is a huge chance both sides will not end up disappointed. If you are doing it just because you feel like you should, then it’s not going to be fun for either of you.
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